Sexy Tips For A Smokin' 2008

I came across this article in Redbook - yes in Redbook - and it's something we could all benefit from.  Sheila Glass who wrote the article has gotten some some smokin' tips from lots of women on how to ignite and keep our sex lives revved up.

If you're looking for reasons not to enjoy sex you will have no trouble finding them.  That little voice in your head will keep you well supplied.  But, if you want to hold onto, or recapture that fun, that heat, that pleasure I've post some of those creative ideas from the article. To read all of them, and you will definitely want to read all of them, just click here.

Assign a sex quota:

When you're both juggling a billion things — work, kids, calling the plumber — finding the time for a little lovin' can be the last thing on your mind. So to ensure it not only gets penciled in but takes top billing, steal Eliza's trick and give yourselves a weekly sex goal. "Seven years and two kids into our marriage, we became consumed by the chaos of daily responsibilities and let sex slide," says the 34-year-old. "We knew it was crucial to find time to be intimate, but a stock Friday-night-sex-date idea felt too contrived, so we created a variation: Every Monday we pick a random number and have to have sex that many times before the week ends. If three days go by with zero action, we know we've got to make up the time fast. For instance, the other day, while the kids were in the backyard with their grandmother, my husband called me into the garage to help him 'organize a shelf.' But when I got there, he grabbed me and pulled me into the backseat of the car. He said he had no choice since we needed to get busy to make the quota."

Crank up your doing-it drive

Doing-it dynamos don't reserve their libidinous fervor just for the bedroom. These people live sexually, adding spice to everyday activities. As a result, they develop a heightened sense of desire, which makes them crave sex 24/7. "I consciously add some zing to all different little areas in my life," says Amanda 35. "I do things like wear silky undies, buy myself an ice cream cone and eat it really suggestively or take the most luxurious shower before work with all sorts of scrubs and creams. They keep that erotic energy in me at a constant hum. Plus, they're all subtle activities that don't require hiding from my daughters."

Sex is an all day fantasy

Of course, you want him to be buzzing with sexual electricity too. "I do things in the morning that get him lusting after me," says Diana. "A stretch while I'm getting dressed, where I raise my arms, arch my back and stick my chest out in front of him, does wonders. Calling out to him from the shower to bring me a towel gives him dirty ideas too. I give him an eyeful that he reruns in his mind all day. Sex is inevitable that evening."

All these ideas sound fabulous to me.  Where there's a will there's always a way.  Make 2008 the sexiest, most fun year ever.